More demand than supply
Big buddies needs you

by Cheryl Leschasin
Northern News Services

NNSL (July 25/97) - Ten young boys and two girls are waiting right now for an adult to volunteer their time to become a big buddy.

"We usually have about 10 little buddies waiting," said Sherri Childs, a big buddies board member.

Sadly, it usually takes between six months and a year to find a match for one child. The process can be further delayed if the child has siblings who also need a buddy.

"It's very difficult to match siblings because we don't like to let a big buddy take siblings together. The whole concept of big buddies is a one-on-one relationship," said Childs.

The program has been in operation in Yellowknife since 1981 and tries to follow the southern big brothers-big sisters program.

Little buddies are generally girls and boys between the ages of six and 14 who, due to a variety of circumstances, lack an appropriate adult figure in their lives.

Parents or guardians apply for a child to get a little buddy.

Big buddies are mature adults who are of good character. Buddies can be married or single and willing to donate between two and four hours a week to spend with their little buddy.

Big buddies are interviewed by big buddy board members and must submit to a criminal record check before being paired with a little buddy.

"We also ask for some personal references," said Childs.

Big buddies are normally asked for a one-year commitment, however, some matches have carried on up to six years.

"The buddies generally do everything on their own," said Childs. "One match bakes together. Others camp, kayak, play tennis -- whatever they're interested in."

Once a month, all the buddies come together for a social event. Board members usually try to arrange a special outing for each of these get-togethers.