INUVIK
With white ribbons and candles on each table, staff and students of Aurora College read out the names of each of the 14 women killed 25 years ago at Ecole Polytechnique in Montreal by a gunman marked with a violent past and learned hatred for women.

Aurora College's Sheila O'Kane, left, Jonathan Wood and Inuvik Victim Support Services Co-ordinator Ali McConnell at the college's vigil marking the National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women. - Elaine Anselmi/NNSL photo

The Dec. 5 vigil recognized the National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women - designated following the Dec. 6 shooting that has come to be known as the Montreal Massacre.

"We're remembering the events of 25 years ago at Ecole Polytechnique, but it's more than that. It's a recognition of the violence against women that happens day in and day out, and also all of the other tragic incidents that have happened in educational institutions in the ensuing years," said Doug Robertson, Aurora Campus director. "It's not just that one event that we remember, we remember all learners and educators who have been killed and injured over the years in the pursuit of their education."

The annual event was organized by the college, with support from the Town of Inuvik's victim support services.

"It's something that we, despite the fact that we haven't had incidents of that nature here in our college system, we certainly don't think that we are immune to those things," said Robertson. "That's why I think every college and university should really take a few minutes to pause."

Following the moment of silence, a discussion led by student life and wellness co-ordinator Jonathon Wood brought about personal experiences with violence and a conversation on some of the factors that contribute to violence.

"Many women experience violence at home, in schools and in their communities every day," said Wood, adding that aboriginal women are more commonly victims of violence - illustrated by the thousands of missing and murdered aboriginal women in Canada.

Campus counsellor Sheila O'Kane spoke of the life of the Ecole Polytechnique shooter, Marc Lepine, who grew up as both a witness and victim of abuse.

"It speaks to how important it is that we bring peace and erase violence from our homes because the outcomes are tragic," said O'Kane.

Samantha Kerr, personal support worker instructor, spoke about the effect the massacre had on those other than the direct victims. She emphasized the importance of being open to people looking for support and listening to those who are in violent situations.

Students and community members also spoke openly about their own experiences, although their names will not be shared for privacy reasons.

One audience member said that, as he overcomes his own experiences with violence, his focus has turned to raising his children.

"I think the best thing we can do is to take care of our own kids," he said. "I think that's what's got to be said more: focus on the youth, the kids, make sure they're safe. Give new parents resources to make sure their kids become good people."

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